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Links and
Articles Page
Page Contents:
TCF Web sites: National web
site, Websites in various states, and International web sites.
Grief Support Web Sites: Various
support websites including SIDS, MISS, SPAN, Operation Angel and others
Bereaved Parents Wish List: Compiled by Diane Collins
TCF, Bay Area Chapter, Houston
National Children Memorial: A
proclamation by the President of the United States 1998
National Magazine: Information
on how to subscribe to the National Magazine.
Web Sites of Compassionate Friends
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National:
Headquarters for
The Compassionate Friends:
Alabama:
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Huntsville Chapter
Mobile Chapter
Arizona:
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Phoenix
Chapter
Tucson
Chapter
California: Top
Contra
Costa County Chapter
Los Angeles
Chapter
Marin County
Chapter
Orange County Chapter
Sacramento
Chapter
San Diego County
Chapter
Yuba City
Chapter
Colorado: Top
Boulder
Chapter
Denver
Chapter
Connecticut:Top
Central Connecticut Chapter
TCF East of the River
Chapter
Northeastern Connecticut
Chapter
Waterbury Chapter
Delaware: Top
Brandywine
Chapter
Florida: Top
Lake Area Keystone Heights Chapter
Heart of Florida Chapter
Space Coast Chapter
Tallahasee Chapter
TCF of Pasco County
Georgia: Top
Atlanta
Chapter
Gwinnett County Chapter
Marietta Chapter
North Atlanta Chapter
TCF of Southwest
Atlanta
Chapter
The Compassionate Friends of
the Golden Isles
Hawaii: Top
There are no chapters in
Hawaii which currently have a website.
Idaho: Top
There are no chapters in
Idaho which currently have a website.
Illinois: Top
Northern Lake County Chapter
Pekin Area Chapter
Indiana: Top
There are no chapters
in Indiana which currently have a website.
Iowa:
Top
Sioux City Chapter
Kansas: Top
Ford County Chapter
TCF of Johnson County
Chapter
Kentucky: Top
Bluegrass
Chapter
TCF of Frankfort Kentucky Chapter
TCF of Nelson County Chapter
Louisiana: Top
Greater New Orleans
Chapter
TCF of Northeast Louisiana
Chapter
Maine: Top
There are no chapters in
Maine which currently have a website.
Maryland: Top
TCF Frederick MD
Chapter
TCF of Greater Baltimore
Chapter
Massachusetts:
Top
Lower Cape Cod Chapter
Massachusetts-Connecticut
Border Towns Chapter
North Central Massachusetts
Chapter
North
Shore-Boston Chapter
Upper Cape Chapter
Michigan:
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Livonia
Chapter
Minnesota: Top
Minneapolis Chapter
St. Paul
Chapter
TCF South of the River
Chapter
Mississippi:
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There are no chapters in
Mississippi which currently have a website.
Missouri: Top
Eastern Jackson County
TCF of North Metro Chapter
The Kansas City Chapter
Montana: Top
Billings Chapter
Missoula Chapter
Nebraska: Top
Greater
Omaha Chapter
Nevada: Top
TCF of Reno Chapter
New Hampshire: Top
There are no
chapters in New Hampshire which currently have a website.
New Jersey: Top
Bridgewater Chapter
Camden County
Chapter
Cumberland
County Chapter
Mercer County Chapter
Monmouth County
Chapter
Morris
Area Chapter
Ocean County Chapter
New Mexico: Top
There are no chapters in New
Mexico which currently have a website.
New York: Top
Broome County Chapter
Manhattan
Chapter
Rochester Chapter
Rockville Centre Chapter
Staten Island Chapter
TCF Brook
Haven Chapter
TCF of White Plains Chapter
North Carolina: Top
Fayetteville Area Chapter of
TCF
TCF
of Chapel Hill Area Chapter
TCF of Charlotte
North Carolina Chapter
TCF of the Sandhills
Chapter
Wake County Chapter
North Dakota: Top
There are no chapters in
North Dakota which currently have a website.
Ohio:
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Greater Cincinnati TCF-East Chapter
TCF
Central
Ohio Chapter
TCF Western Reserve Chapter
Tiffin Area Chapter
Oklahoma:
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There are no chapters in
Oklahoma which currently have a website.
Oregon: Top
Portland Chapter
Rogue Valley Chapter
Salem Oregon
Chapter
Pennsylvania: Top
Abington/Jenkintown
Chapter
Camp
Hill Chapter
King of Prussia
Chapter
Lehigh Valley
Chapter
Valley Forge Chapter
Puerto Rico: Top
There are no chapters in
Puerto Rico which currently have a website.
Rhode Island:
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Greater Providence Area
Chapter
South Carolina: Top
TCF Waccamaw Chapter
South Dakota: Top
There are no chapters in
South Dakota which currently have a website.
Tennessee: Top
The Memphis Chapter
The Nashville Chapter
Texas: Top
El Paso Chapter
Ft Worth Chapter
Houston Bay Area Chapter
Houston West Chapter
Sugar Land/SW
Houston Chapter
TCF of Brazoria County Chapter
TCF of
Galveston County Chapter
TCF of Houston Inner Loop Chapter
TCF of
Robertson County Chapter
TCF of Southwest Dallas County
Chapter
TCF of Wylie
Chapter
The Compassionate
Friends of Tyler
Utah:
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Virginia:
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Piedmont
Chapter
Washington: Top
Eastside
Washington Chapter
Seattle
Chapter
Wyoming: Top
Other
Grief Support Sites: TOP
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Luvnmiss-memories |
This site is
dedicated to loved ones that have passed on. |
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Recover from Grief |
A site dedicated
to assisting parents with grief after the loss of a child (children). |
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Silent Grief |
This site is
dedicated to families who have suffered loss through stillbirth, miscarriage
& infant death. |
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Death of a Child |
A site dedicated
to assisting parents with grief after the loss of a child (children). |
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The Unthinkable
Grief |
A site dedicated
to assisting parents and their marriage while suffering grief after the loss of a child (children). |
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Alive Alone |
A support group
for the education of bereaved parents, whose only child or all children are
deceased. |
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The Healing Place |
A site dedicated
to parents' healing after the loss of a child or children. |
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A Place to Remember |
Uplifting support
resources for those who have been touched by a crisis in pregnancy or the
death of a baby. |
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AMEND |
AMEND stands for
aiding Mothers and Fathers Experiencing Neonatal Death. Offering free
counseling service to parents who have experienced the loss of an infant
through miscarriage, stillbirth, or neonatal death. Offers support and
encouragement to parents having a normal grief reaction to the loss of their
baby. |
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Open to Hope |
Information and support to support
your marriage after the death of your child(ren). |
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GriefLink |
This site
is an information source on death related grief for the bereaved and
grieving. |
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Honored Babies |
A site for mothers whose babies
have died (miscarriage,ectopic pregnancy, stillbirth, neonatal death,
infancy death, and/or pregnancy termination) to add their babies to an
on-line Memorial, join an on-line support group, E-mail list (there's also
one for Grandmothers), and submit their "entire" story for book publication.
Offered also is a Resource center and Keepsakes. |
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Forever Missed |
This site is one where families can
build their own limited website memorial for a member of their family for
free. Expanded websites are available for a monthly charge. |
A Bereaved Parent's Wish
List TOP
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I wish my child hadn't died. I wish I had him back.
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I wish you wouldn't be afraid to speak my child's name. My
child lived and was very important to me. I need to
hear he was important to you also.
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If I cry and get emotional when you talk about my child I wish you knew that it isn't because you have hurt me. My
child's death is the cause of my tears. You have talked about my
child, and you have allowed me to share my grief. I thank you for
both.
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I wish you wouldn't "kill" my child again by removing his
pictures, artwork, or" other remembrances from your home.
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Being a bereaved parent is not contagious, so I wish you wouldn't shy away from me. I need you now more than ever.
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I need diversions, so I do want to hear about you; but I also want you to hear about me. I might be sad and I might cry,
but I wish you would let me talk about my child, my favorite topic of the
day.
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I know that you think of and pray for me often. I also know
that my child's death pains you, too. I wish you would let me
know those things through a phone call, a card or note, or a real big
hug.
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I wish you wouldn't expect my grief to be over in six months. These first months are traumatic for me, but I wish you
could understand that my grief will never be over. I will
suffer the death of my child until the day I die.
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I am working very hard in my recovery, but I wish you could understand that I will never fully recover. I will
always miss my child, and I will always grieve that he is dead.
I wish you wouldn't expect me "not think about it" or to "be
happy." Neither will happen for a very long time, so don't frustrate
yourself.
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I don't want to have a "pity party," but I do wish you would let me grieve. I must hurt before I can heal.
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I wish you understood how my life has shattered. I know it is miserable for you to be around me when I'm feeling
miserable. Please be as patient with me as I am with you.
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When I say, "I'm doing okay," I wish you could understand that I don't "feel" okay and that I struggle daily.
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I wish you knew that all of the grief reactions I'm having are very normal. Depression, anger, hopelessness and overwhelming
sadness are all to be expected. So please excuse me when I'm
quiet and withdrawn or irritable and cranky.
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Your advice to "take one day at a time" is excellent advice. However, a day is too much and too fast for me right now.
I wish you could understand that I'm doing good to handle an hour
at a time.
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Please excuse me if I seem rude, certainly not my intent. Sometimes the world around me goes too fast and I need to
get off. When I walk away, I wish you would let me find a quiet
place to spend time alone.
Compiled by Diane Collins
TCF, Bay Area Chapter, Houston
National
Children's Memorial Day TOP
December 11, 1998
NATIONAL CHILDREN'S MEMORIAL DAY, 1998
THE WHITE HOUSE
Office of the Press Secretary
For Immediate Release
December 11, 1998
NATIONAL CHILDREN'S MEMORIAL DAY, 1998
BY THE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA
A PROCLAMATION
There is nothing more devastating to a family than the death of a child. Each year,
thousands of America's families face this tragedy, losing their children to illness,
injury or accident. Our whole society experiences this loss as well, for we are all
diminished by the death of every one of our young people, whose love, laughter, talents,
and achievements bring so much joy to our lives and so much promise to our future.
The holiday season is an especially painful time for parents who have lost a child, so it
is fitting that we set aside a special day during this month to acknowledge the grief of
these families and to pay tribute to the lives and memories of their children. On National
Children's Memorial Day, let us all reach out, whether as individuals or as members of
caring communities, to offer bereaved families the compassion, support, and understanding
they need to begin the process of healing. NOW, THEREFORE, I, WILLIAM J. CLINTON, President of the United States of America, by
virtue of the authority vested in me by the Constitution and laws of the United States, do
hereby proclaim December 13, 1998, as National Children's Memorial Day. I call upon the
American people to observe this day with appropriate programs and activities in
remembrance of the infants, children, teenagers, and young adults who have died and to
bring comfort to their families. IN WITNESS WHEREOF, I have hereunto set my hand this eleventh day of December, in the year
of our Lord nineteen hundred and ninety-eight, and of the Independence of the United
States of America the two hundred and twenty-third.
WILLIAM J. CLINTON
30-30-30
Magazine of The Compassionate Friends
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The Compassionate Friends, Inc.
P.O. Box 3696
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